Friday, August 14, 2009

Phase 1: A new Beginning

A word that puts many people into jitters and I am no different ! The most common and funny questions that I was popped up with when I told people that I was getting married were: (in increasing order of severity!)




  1. Serious??
  2. So soon?
  3. Arranged marriage?( lol...)
  4. Why?(this question is my personal favorite..cudnt find an answer for it)
Some even supported my decision by giving examples , this one tops all :
" good ya ... u r getting married early...coz..my aunty's sis's brother's daughter is "x" years old and still the search is on". I wonder if she exists !!! (hahahahahahah!)
o man...we all have stories!!!! Is it a coincidence or are we all alike?

Got married.......flew over two large seas with lots of thoughts and mixed feelings in my head! Was thinking about "my own" home, yes!,and that thought scared me again! Could someone like me, who can't even manage my book rack ..manage a home?????Yes indeed. :)
I think this chapter in every woman's life is the same with a few minor changes.I can vouch for that, coz when I talk to married people, they seem to have either done these a few years back or are doing them now! These seem to be the most common stuff done by every woman when she gets married:
  • Talks to her mom for more that 2 hours( lessens as time passes)
  • Wants to cook like her mom ..but it turns out to be entirely diff!!
  • Gains weight
  • She might have thought at least once "what has happ to my life!"
It is definitely a transition,coz, we wouldnt have done many of the things mentioned above , when we were with out parents!But slowly without our notice, all these , becomes a part of our life!

I am happily married to the man of my dreams. He happens to be the most wonderful person on earth. A silent, intelligent,easygoing, fun loving and caring husband.Most important of all..he loves me. I am lucky..(blushing!!)

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